What Are Some NEW Techniques for Getting Your Ex Back in the Sack?

Nov 05 2012

By now some of you have heard the usual “blah blah blah” about getting an ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend back in the sack.

“Break up Sex, Jealousy, Guilt Trips” to name a few. These have been re-hashed so much that they don’t even work that well anymore. They have become “mainstream” and when they do work, it’s usually only a one time deal before ex couples realize what they are doing.

Unfortunately you have to go old school nowadays.

That’s right, the “new – new”, is the “old – old”. That is, what ex’s are doing now is the old fashion kiss and make up.

A big part of it is the times in which we live. Not a lot of people can really afford to aimlessly bar hop around anymore. And the people who are out there, well, are kind of CRAZY. Have you noticed?  They either act like zombies or are so jacked up on these energy drinks that you wonder when they will ever shut up. Uncertain times lead to uncertainty in individuals. When people have to rebuild, reinvent, and reshape their lives, as many do now, they lose their “labels”.

More and more people are totally uncertain about their own identities nowadays.

So basically, after a break up, finding someone new can turn into a real hassle, and major headache weeding through all of these “lost identities”.

It becomes easier, and actually more fulfilling, going back to the guy or girl you actually once did have a strong connection with, and working on re-kindling that.

So, how to re-kindle a relationship?

Since we’re going old school, then let’s go with what always seems to work: remembering how you once were, and going back to that place. The first kiss, the first few months, that initial spark that felt so awesome – and remained awesome for a stretch. Try going back there. That’s usually when things were real, before all the ego trips and distrust’s and misunderstandings took place.

The new technique for getting your former lost love back, is lighting that flame back up old school style, re-discovering yourselves, and together moving forward towards something even more awesome than before.

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“I Want My Ex Back” – The First Step.

Sep 29 2012

So, you want your ex back.

That’s great, but you have to have a plan.

A lot of people whine, cry  and complain, “I want my ex back”, yet they don’t formulate any sort of plan to make it happen.

It’s almost like they believe that whining and complaining will get the job done. It definitely will not. It will likely make things worse.

Formulating a plan may sound daunting and complicated. But the first step is actually easy. The first step is to TAKE ACTION.

Think of it this way. You’re a kid and you want to dive off the high dive. You’ve been sitting beneath it for weeks, just thinking how bad you want to dive off the high dive. You will never dive off the high dive if you continue to sit there and just “think about it”.

You have to take action. The first thing to do is simply grab the hand rail at the bottom and step on the first step up. Now you are actually on your way.

It’s the same thing with getting back an ex. You have to take that first step. And just like that little kid, sometimes the first step seems the hardest, but once you take it you are on your way.

So the taking action is the first step. In this case you begin your climb back to your ex by investing in a plan of action.  You actually sit down and set a goal of when you desire to realistically be reunited with your ex.  Then you ask yourself how you are going to get there. What plan are you going to follow.

There are many plans available for ex’s that work, and work very well. You can use one of these and cut to the chase. Start studying it immediately and begin going through the steps.

Here are a few examples of effective “Get Back Ex” blueprinted plans which you can follow:

The Magic of Making Up

The Ex Factor

Otherwise you can try and formulate your own plan, talk to friends or relatives, or go to a therapist/counselor and get advised on what course of actions you should take.

Now days with the internet most ex’s like the ease of getting things done themselves and not getting others unnecessarily involved. Most ex’s will grab a blueprint, and start climbing the ladder towards getting him or her back.

In any event the key is taking that first step. Taking action quickly once you really decide how bad you want your ex back.

Take the steps towards the top. Then enjoy diving back in to your former and now renewed, relationship.

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3 Spiritual Ways to Get Ex Back

Sep 10 2012

1. Meditation. This is an excellent way to get yourself grounded, while reloading to take on the endeavor of manifesting your love back to you. Start by simple breathing exercises to get into the meditation mood. Count your breaths, as you breath in slowly and controlled. Focus on clearing your mind of all the clutter before you go into meditation. This can be a great spiritual way to get ex back as it puts you in a critical state for letting go, releasing fear and doubt, and moving forward into an easy action phase in which you can focus clearly on reuniting with your love.

2. Seek a Guru. Spiritual gurus’ can seem like a dime a dozen when you begin looking around for one. But eventually you will find one that seems to speak your language and gives advice which enlightens you.  Now days the use of the internet can expedite your search and your spiritual awakening. Guru’s are good in that they can summarize all the main points into a succint and clear point of view.

3. Simply Read a Book. There are many great books on spirituality, some of them are not relationship specific related, but as soon as you start reading them, you will realize that in fact the lessons within can be translated over to your relationship issues. It’s likely if you’ve found a guru that they have books available, or simply search online, read reviews, check out some YouTube videos and you will likely come across books which are aligned to your spiritual path.

Some of these methods will be the most beneficial in “putting you on the path”, and from there you can go for a more specific relationship approach. My favorite formula I’ve recommended to friends is to get two books. One a spiritual book, and the other a relationship book telling you the actions to take to get your ex boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife back. This combo is great because it keeps your mood elevated throughout, while you take specific real world actions to get back together with the ex.

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How to Get Back Your Ex Long Distance Lover

Aug 29 2012

Q:  I had an amazing relationship with someone who actually lived far away. It was a long distance relationship but it really seemed to work. We would hook up at least once every month or two and everytime was amazing. Other than that we would communicate constantly through the week.

But then as life has it, he got busy, I got busy and before long we just weren’t even communicating.

Is there a way for how to get back your ex long distance lover that can really work and overcome that weird non-communication that seemed to form out of nowhere?

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A: Most people are negative towards long distance relationships, saying they never can really work. But when they do work, as you’ve found out, they can be fantastic. All the little things that seem to clog up relationships unnecessarily are eliminated, and instead focus is placed on one another. The time spent becomes special and unique, since the time is usually limited and not an everyday/every week affair.

But of course there comes that point. How long can it go on before the distance creates a real distance in the relationship?

If you had something special that you want to rekindle from afar there are ways to get things going again.

Always remember, we live in a time now where communication is easier than ever. And very cheap. We can actually video chat with one another no matter where we live (practically).

The first thing I would do when trying to figure how to get back your ex long distance lover is to implement texts. There are entire get back with your ex texting programs you can use for resurrecting long distance relationships. The key with texting is that you are starting slow and building up.  In order to get your long distance guy back, you don’t want to immediately get on video chat. You want to send some simple texts and build up some STEAM. By the time you get to video chat, he will be very anxious to see you and hear your actual voice. That is, if you do the texting right (that’s why texting ex routines can be so important as they outline how to properly build up desire).

Once you get that desire going, you can either move on to video chat, or you can go straight for setting up your next actual physical contact trip. They key is getting that desire rolling again, and then, you can literally jump right back into where you were before in the relationship.

Remember, losing contact with long distance lovers is very common, and is often not the fault of the usual relationship problems. It’s more just a natural getting carried away with life thing, and once you get back in touch, things could once again pick up right where the excitement left off.

 

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How to Get Ex Back AFTER Begging?

Aug 28 2012

Q:  Help!

So I did what everyone said not to do (this I learned after the fact)… I BEGGED my girlfriend to take me back…

I really couldn’t help myself though… It was spur of the moment  and I just went for it…

I put on a real show too.. Down on knees, tears in eyes, begging, “please…please…please take me back!!!”

So obviously it didn’t work, and obviously now I’ve dug a bigger hole than ever….

What do i do now???

How do I get ex back after begging?

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A:  First, you realize that begging was the wrong approach, which you’ve done. Most people fail to get their ex’s back after begging, but usually it is because they simply give up. They see it as “well if I’ve begged on my hands and knee’s and that didn’t work, nothing will.” 

You can still get an ex back even after begging.

Here’s how:

1. Space. Create some space and allow time to go by so hopefully the begging incident will become smaller and not be so front and center.During this time, study up on proper ways for how to get an ex back.

2. Apologize. You’ll have to apologize for the begging incident, but not in a whiny, crying way as that will be just like begging. Instead be strong and stand firm. Your emotions got the better of you, and you are now learning how to better deal with them. Stand strong and proud and realize you made a mistake and are truly sorry for it.

3. Re-Load, Remain Strong. Now you can take what you learned during the create space period and slowly begin to apply them. Always remain strong and don’t get anywhere near the begging mode. Since you’ve already been down that route, you have to be sure to have your emotions under control and if one thing doesn’t work, then be ready to bounce back with another approach without letting emotion overwhelm.

The begging still hovers above, but by implementing these tactics you can lower the incident significantly to having it nearly become a non factor for getting her back.

Good luck and Good love.

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Reasons to NOT Get Back With Ex?

Aug 23 2012

Recently an article has been hitting the rounds regarding half a dozen reasons NOT to get back with your ex. Rather than go through each one, (many are the usual generalizations you hear, i.e. “jealousy, familiarity, neither of you will change, etc.), I realized they all can be responded to with one word: TRY.

You are basically going to have to TRY to put things back together. If you don’t want to put in the effort, or TRY,  then that should be the main reason to not get back with ex, if that’s what you truly desire.

Trying means change. You have to be ready to change. One of the reasons given for not getting back with ex in the article was something to the effect of “both of you probably haven’t changed”. Well, DUH. Obviously some change is going to be needed to get back with one another in the first place.

But if you just throw in the towel beforehand, completely negating the possibility of change, then yes you will likely fail.

In order to try you have to look at what exactly your efforts entail. If you know what needs to be done, then that’s good. Unfortunately many don’t, and that’s where getting some help comes in. You can talk with friends, family, and others whom you trust. You can try a counselor, or if you see a therapist or one of these “life coaches”, then definitely bring it up during your session.

We also recommend the D.I.Y. (do it yourself) approach first, using tried and trued methods that you can learn on your own and then you don’t have to bother others with your problems.  See some d.i.y. recommended relationship saving products here.

In any event, while many underlining and negative reasons may exist for not getting back together, if you feel there is some positivity and it is what you desire, then don’t worry about all the generalizations on why you shouldn’t get back, just focus your efforts on trying to get back, while realizing change is a key component.

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Getting My Ex Back NOW! What’s the Instant Magic Formula?

Aug 21 2012

Hi,

I’m seriously anxious to get my ex back. Not in a few weeks, but NOW.

Surely there must be an instant magic formula to get an ex back ASAP.  I understand the need to go through certain steps and try to resolve problems, etc. etc.  But I really need him back NOW. We have bills to pay together, and projects we were doing together that need completing, and really I miss him totally and can’t seem to function otherwise. I’m positive we will sort out the other stuff once we become a couple again.

Can you just let me know on your site the quickest fix, or email me privately with a magic formula that might know of…

Thanks so much,

Rosa.

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Hi Rosa,

Well we definitely aren’t hoarding some secret magic formula for getting an ex back. What we have listed on our site as products, books, techniques and tactics are the things that really do work.

Now, yes, most are not push one button and “wa-la” you have your ex back. You do have to push a few buttons, wait, and push a few more. If emotions were strong enough for the two of you to break up, then you can understand how it’s going to take a few different steps to get back in their good graces and become a couple again.

And actually, these programs we recommend do work very fast, much faster than not using them. But, as said, they won’t work in 5 minutes.

Now, having said that, there has been one system that’s been getting great results and both guys and girls are providing feedback about how quickly they’ve managed to get back together. Literally a few days for some, and almost overnight for a few.

The program I’m referring to is the texting your ex back routine, and the reason this works so well and so quickly is because it takes advantage of two very important things: Technology and our current state’s of mind. Let’s go with the latter first.

Our current state’s of mind our that of quick fixes, instant messages, immediate feedback; we have re-programmed our brains so that they now expect things to happen right away. And many times they do. We get answers quickly, we get messages instantly, and so forth.

Technology has provided the means, and likely caused, this speed up. So it was rather ingenious when someone came up with a system that uses this technology (texting) for the specific reason of solving relationship problems.

It’s about as “instant” as it gets.

But again, usually a series of texts are required for this to work. And usually it is not overnight. But in some cases it can be, and it may be worth a try if you are in that position of needing and wanting to return to normal asap.

Good luck and good love.

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What “Get Back Ex” Product Works Best???

Aug 01 2012

 

hi, wondering out of the products you have recommended which get back ex product works the best???

thanks

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Hi there,

While there are various products listed HERE, let’s focus on two specific products listed on our homepage.

This refers to the text your ex back program, and the Magic of Making up program.

I can tell that you want an answer that will cut to the chase so you can get going with this. Perhaps you have an ex you are desperately wanting to get back together with ASAP!

So we will skip all the talking points on each product (you can read about the specific pluses to each on their site), and instead we will break it down in a different way, while keeping things simple and concise.

TEXT YOUR EX BACK – So you should go for this one if a few of these elements fit your situation: If you’ve recently broken up with your ex, if you want potentially the FASTEST way to get back together (and if time is a big issue in rekindling the relationship), and finally if ‘texting’ is a regular part of your relationship, or, if you have at least texted back and forth on occasion in the past (basically saying that if TEXTING is NOT something you do or it is looked down upon in your relationship, or thought of more as childish, lame, too trendy, too ridiculous, arrogant, etc, etc. – you get the point, then you shouldn’t bother with this product).

MAGIC OF MAKING UP – Now, if you have more time and want to formulate a more comprehensive plan, then this one is for you. Now there are definitely tactics you can use right away and the potential for getting them back FAST is definitely there. But if you are a bit more old school then this could be the one for you, as it allows you time to put together a real world plan and not so much having to rely only on technology.

And maybe that could be a break down of the two: Texting = technology/new school while Magic = planning/old school.

You can’t lose with either, but check out your specific situation and then go from there.

Good Luck and Good Love!

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Working with My Ex SUCKS! (She’s Having “THOSE” Feelings Again!)

Jul 30 2012

So I started in a new division a few weeks ago and I knew Danny worked there, whatever, he’s my ex and business is business ya know?

Well I thought I knew.  It didn’t take long, actually it did seem to creep up on me but probably because I was trying to resist it so much at first. But I totally started getting turned on all over again. You know, having ‘THOSE’ feelings all over again.

It was different though. Seeing him in charge of his group was a turn on, but also seeing how he cared for a lot of the migrant workers was really sweet and made me see Danny in a new light. I guess a light I never bothered trying to peek into before.

Watching him pay for some of their lunches when they were clearly short and obviously salivating everytime the food truck rolled in… Seeing him give the guys an added break on top of their regular required 10 minute breaks… Even allowing a woman who was clearly pregnant but trying to hide it so as not to lose her job, allowing her friend to fill in while she rode out her third trimester in peace compared to the heavy lifting she was doing was just so touching and moving…

And I didn’t mentioned 3 weeks ago… I became engaged, which furthers the conflict within me.

I’m now realizing that me and Danny really didn’t know each other as well as we thought, and if only… If only… Well, who knows…

Ugh.. Working with my ex sucks! Who would’ve known I would have fallen for him all over and in a different, stronger way than ever before…

Frustrated and confused..

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Hi F and C…

First off, there are two things you left out of your story..

One, is Danny even available, and two, you made no mention about your current fiance.

First of all if Danny is with someone or married, then this should seal things as far as getting back with him, unless you want to be a home wrecker.

But second, which is more troubling, is that you made no mention about your current fiance. Normally, one would feel compelled to give a guy which you totally love and are willing to spend the rest of your life with, normally you would give such, very high props. You would tell us about the greatness of him and some of his wonderful characteristics and what made you fall in love with him.

But instead there was nothing.

Just a “oh by the way did I mention I was engaged”. Like it was some total imposition. As if it was a major negative thing. Which in a way it can be seen as such given the circumstances, but again one would balance that out with the positive reasons you’ve decided to be together, for life.

Instead it was Danny, Danny, Danny.

So whether you or Dan get back together or not, I would heavily question your current relationship as it certainly is NOT strong enough to withhold certain temptations and emotions.

It is possible to see Danny’s good deeds as a friend. A guy you used to see, who you now appreciate a lot more on a friendly basis. Danny doing good deeds doesn’t have to translate into sexual turn on’s.

I would search for some answers within when it comes to your current fiance first and foremost.

From there you should give it at least a few more months before truly deciding whether your  new feelings for the Dan Man are really genuine or just a temporary turn on sparked by seeing this guy in a different, more caring than you knew, light. After all you once were attracted to him physically and otherwise, so you already have that groundwork laid down. Seeing his caring ways for the first time may be a temporary spark that has just ignited itself. Give it time to make sure it’s the real deal.

Good Luck, and Good Love.

 

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“Can’t Get Past the Hurt” – Should This Boyfriend REALLY Get Back with His Ex?

Jul 27 2012

“I’ve made a solemn decision..a heartfelt commitment..and I’ve been solid in my determination..to get back with my ex.

She cheated on me 6 weeks ago. I was devastated and distraught, but now I see that what really needs to happen is to get back together, and get past this.

I’ve gone through some steps, many from the resources I see you have on your site, and I’m all but ready to rekindle things.

She’s apologized and expressed interest that yes, she would like to get back together. We’ve only spoke intermittingly and briefly since the incident occurred. But the green light is there.

The problem is the yellow light keeps showing up everytime I pick up the phone and want to make it official with her, that we are back.

I can’t seem to get past the hurt. Everytime I’m ready to get back with her, make it official, the hurt hits, and I hesitate.

Now I fear my hesitation is going to close the window I have here for getting back with her.

I need some words that will encourage me to take that leap.”

-B

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Hello B…

First of all, it sounds like you’ve only skimmed through the resources and products we recommend here at HTGEB.com  You’ve certainly made it to the point were you are thinking of putting the bad behind and moving forward.

But you can’t go through with it, because ultimately you are going about things completely WRONG.

Listen, there is no jumping right back into the relationship and making it official. You act like it’s a switch you just flick.

You mentioned that you’ve barely talked to your ex girlfriend. Yet you are ready to dive right in and make it official to get back together with one another? Of course you can’t seem to do it because you are still hurting. And the reason you are still hurting is because you haven’t talked to your gf.

You two need to talk with one another first and actually discuss the reasons why this happened and then decide if getting back together is the right thing to do.

Understanding and Resolution. First understand what happened and why, as much as possible, and then you can resolve to make a decision on where to go from here based on what happened and how each of you feel about going forward. What’s the best resolution? It may not be getting back together. Or it may DEFINITELY be getting back together.

The point is you have to go through these things first. That’s why you are seeing the yellow light pop up so often. You are trying to run a red. The yellow is telling you, “whoa..whoa..slow down..”

You need to pause first, go through the necessary motions, and then see if the light turns green.

Good luck B, and Good Love.

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