By now some of you have heard the usual “blah blah blah” about getting an ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend back in the sack.
“Break up Sex, Jealousy, Guilt Trips” to name a few. These have been re-hashed so much that they don’t even work that well anymore. They have become “mainstream” and when they do work, it’s usually only a one time deal before ex couples realize what they are doing.
Unfortunately you have to go old school nowadays.
That’s right, the “new – new”, is the “old – old”. That is, what ex’s are doing now is the old fashion kiss and make up.
A big part of it is the times in which we live. Not a lot of people can really afford to aimlessly bar hop around anymore. And the people who are out there, well, are kind of CRAZY. Have you noticed? They either act like zombies or are so jacked up on these energy drinks that you wonder when they will ever shut up. Uncertain times lead to uncertainty in individuals. When people have to rebuild, reinvent, and reshape their lives, as many do now, they lose their “labels”.
More and more people are totally uncertain about their own identities nowadays.
So basically, after a break up, finding someone new can turn into a real hassle, and major headache weeding through all of these “lost identities”.
It becomes easier, and actually more fulfilling, going back to the guy or girl you actually once did have a strong connection with, and working on re-kindling that.
So, how to re-kindle a relationship?
Since we’re going old school, then let’s go with what always seems to work: remembering how you once were, and going back to that place. The first kiss, the first few months, that initial spark that felt so awesome – and remained awesome for a stretch. Try going back there. That’s usually when things were real, before all the ego trips and distrust’s and misunderstandings took place.
The new technique for getting your former lost love back, is lighting that flame back up old school style, re-discovering yourselves, and together moving forward towards something even more awesome than before.